Being on social media I see a lot of things.
Things that go viral, other people’s opinions, other people’s behaviors, just a lot of different things.
Being apart of a generation where many of us are attached to our phones and put our whole lives on the internet, I have come to a conclusion after seeing so many of the same things being said by a ton of people.
And from there I have drawn a conclusion.
There are a lot of people out there looking for someone to make them happy.
And this is especially true for a lot of the people in my generation (gen z) and it’s really interesting to me!
I can’t scroll through Instagram, Twitter, or Facebook without seeing posts about people looking for someone who will be “Loyal and love them flaws and all.”
But the really crazy thing is (I’m just being dramatic) that I totally get it because when I met my fiance I was doing the exact same thing.
I got lucky.
I found someone that genuinely loves and cares for me so I didn’t have to suffer from heartbreak after heartbreak.
So I completely get it when I see these posts, because I felt the same way once upon a time.
I also know where the desire for me to find someone to make me happy came from. I was unhappy, depressed, and didn’t love myself, so I thought that if I could find someone to love me for who I was and as I was, then I could love myself too.
So I cannot stress this enough,
Love yourself and be your own happiness!
It is so easy to get caught up in someone else, especially when they make you feel good about yourself, but that leaves us open to getting hurt time and time again.
So here are a 3 tips to help you become your own happiness.
1. Work on building your confidence.
If that means you need to wake up everyday and put on a full face of make up to make you feel pretty, do it.
If that means you need to start working out to get your dream body, do it.
If that means you need to get rid of all the toxic people in your life that make you feel bad about yourself, do it!
Whatever it takes for you to wake up every morning ready to take on the day, live your life, and make you feel like your that bitch.
You and your happiness is what matters most.
When you feel good about yourself and you are confident, you will attract the right person to you.
2. Practice self care.
When you feel good mentally, emotionally, and physically, life can be really great.
So make sure you are eating healthy foods, taking care of your skin, getting rid of toxic energy in your life, you name it.
Start putting yourself first more often.
Do things that make you happy and feel good, and you will start to feel so much more complete.
3. Do things you love to do.
Listen to music, dance, sing, workout, hike, blog, youtube, literally anything and everything you enjoy doing, do it.
Think about it, if you are living your life and enjoying it, you don’t have time to worry about seeking someone to make you happy because you’re already there.
At the end of the day,
All I am trying to say is to be your own happiness. You don’t need anyone to make you happy and chances are that if you do the relationship will not be a healthy one because you will be extremely dependent on your partner for you to feel happy.
Take charge of your life and get the happiness that you deserve. Thank you for taking the time to read this, and I’ll see you in my next post.