Why The Law Of Attraction Is Very Real

Why The Law Of Attraction Is Very Real

For years I have always heard of the law of attraction, but I never understood what it really meant.

What I did understand was that it usually required a lot of positive thinking, but that was really it.

In the last three months or so, things in my life had taken a really bad turn. I was depressed, riddled with anxiety, and was far from happy.

And it wasn’t until November 21st that I was in a car accident and later that day I realized that I brought the accident upon myself.

Let me elaborate.

For anyone who truly knows me, they would all know that I have terrible car anxiety. I hate driving. I hate driving with other people and I will literally burst into tears when going around tight turns.

Car rides are just not fun to me.

Anyway, so with that being said, I really hate driving in the rain. And it just so happen to be that on that day, it was our first rain here in our city (I live in Northern California, we needed the rain with all the fires going on and all).

I had just gotten off of work and the moment that I saw it was raining, the little voice in my head kicked in.

“Oh my God, I don’t wanna deal with this. It’s going to be a bitch trying to get home.” Negative thoughts started pouring in.

The car that I drive is my fiance’s car and I have been driving it since I had to get rid of my Jetta a year ago. It is a Crown Victoria that used to be a police car.

So needless to say, the car is more powerful than I would prefer, but I just have to deal with it. I kept thinking about what would happen if I got into an accident. “Please don’t let me crash.” I kept thinking to myself.

To make a long story short, I went to Walmart (which was a few blocks from my workplace), bought my girls some Thanksgiving outfits, and left.

On my way out parking lot, I was making a left turn onto the main road and hit an oil patch, spun out, hit a divider.

I was super shaken up and devastated I won’t lie. I wasn’t even going 10 miles an hour when I was making the turn and it was just a complete inconvenience.

But thankfully, no one else was involved, and the only damage was that the bumper came off. Thank God for that!

Regardless of what happened, I still enjoyed my Thanksgiving and was grateful because things could have been so much worse! I was safe, the car was still functioning, and no one else was hurt at the end of the day and that was all that mattered.

What does that have to do with the law of attraction?

Well, a few days after the accident, my fiance was outside doing some work on the car with his dad and I was doing some cooking for the kids while listening to Youtube videos.

At some point I went to change videos, and I came across a suggested video with a title that said something like, “How You Are Attracting Negativity Into Your Life.” It caught my attention and watched it.

It was from there that I was introduced to the power of the law of attraction.

I had always assumed that it only worked for positive things, but boy was I wrong! Just as easily as we can attract positive things in our life, we can attract negative things, and for me the car accident solidified that revelation for me!

I kept watching different videos about the subject, watched The Secret and I immediately became infatuated with it and I believe in it whole heatedly.

Reflecting on the events that have been happening in my life the last few months, have made me come to the conclusion that my constant negative thoughts, feelings and actions are causing a constant cycle of bad things to manifest into my life.

What I was putting out into the world was what I was getting back.

So what did I do to change this?

There are many words and things that we say that contribute to the attraction of negativity. For example, I would always say, “I can never get break.” Of course when I say this the universe is tuning in to my vibration and energy, and has decided not to give me a break.

I also have a habit of using the the words, “I wish.” “I hope.” and “I need.” When we use these words we put a focus on what we don’t have, when we need to be showing that we are grateful for what we do have.

Since learning this I have been reprogramming myself to start using more positive words that are going to attract great things into my life. And the way I have been doing that is by using words like “I am.” “I have.” and “I will.”

Since then, every morning when I wake up I start by saying things that I am grateful for, saying positive affirmations, and some journal writing.

These things have been putting me in a much more positive mood. I am also slowly starting to notice that when something I didn’t particularly like happens, instead of my first initial thoughts being something negative, I am starting to focus on something positive about the situation.

This is what I’ve learned.

We as people have a great amount of control over our lives.

With positive thinking, gratitude, good energy, and good deeds we can get anything that we want in life.

The first steps are believing, and changing your mindset.

Since I have started to believe in the law of attraction things have started to click for me. It feels right, and I know that from here on out everything I want in life will come to me in perfect timing with faith, God and hard work.

What are your thoughts on the law of attraction? Let me know down in the comments and I’ll see you in my next one.




  1. December 7, 2018 / 12:28 pm

    I’m very much pro law of attraction, it’s been difficult in the last few weeks where things have been quite tough, but I’m definitely trying to do more! I loved this post so much!

    Love, Amie ❤
    The Curvaceous Vegan

    • telia
      December 11, 2018 / 1:28 pm

      I’m glad you liked it, and I hope things get much better for you and lots of blessings all 2019!

  2. December 7, 2018 / 12:43 pm

    Omg so true, I am constantly “wishing” and feeling like I’m not good enough. It needs to stop but it’s so so hard!
    I’m gunna teak a leaf out of your book and do! Thankyou for sharing x

    • telia
      December 11, 2018 / 1:25 pm

      Thank you! I hope that things go well for you.

  3. December 7, 2018 / 1:11 pm

    Journal writing is great. It definitely helps me clarify my thoughts. I think it’s great that you’ve been able to adjust your mindset to something more positive and optimistic. It really does make a difference!

    • telia
      December 11, 2018 / 1:26 pm

      Yes I love journal writing, its a great outlet for your emotions. And thank you for taking the time to read this!

  4. December 7, 2018 / 1:49 pm

    I am familiar with law of attraction. I even used to mediate in hope I’ll bring good things in my life, but somewhere in my life I stopped. I mean, my life was good and all, but I guess I was too busy and then I stopped believing.
    But I do believe that you can call bad things in your life if they are constantly on your mind.

    • telia
      December 11, 2018 / 11:24 am

      Hopefully you can get back into it and your life continues to get better!

  5. December 7, 2018 / 6:39 pm

    wow! This post really surprised me, I wasn’t to sure what to expect with the title, because personally I never really believed in the law of attraction but I’m defiantly open to what other think, and hearing this story has opened my eyes a lot and I’m so happy for you and that your doing well, super interesting post xox

    • telia
      December 11, 2018 / 10:49 am

      I’m glad that I was able to surprise you. I’m happy that I was able to even be able to help you be open to it! That’s exactly why I wrote this post!

  6. Jheelam
    December 7, 2018 / 10:49 pm

    I can so relate with this. Been in a rough phase longer than I’d like and it’s only recently that I’ve been leaning on inculcating positive thoughts and seeing the benefits. Glad that you’ve taken charge of the situation and making something optimistic out of it. Lovely post <3.

    • telia
      December 11, 2018 / 10:53 am

      Thank you so much! I hope your journey to positive thinking goes well for you!

  7. December 8, 2018 / 5:55 am

    First off, I love your blog design and layout. Second, I really enjoyed this post. I’m usually a pretty positive person, but there has been stress which has steered me away from that. It’s an occasional issue, but reading your post helped me think about refocusing on that positivity. I don’t think a lot of people realize how much our words and thoughts effect us. Great reminder for everyone and hopefully will cause change for them.

    • telia
      December 11, 2018 / 10:46 am

      Thank you! I hope you are able to get back to that positive place and I am thankful that you have taken the time to read this!

  8. Erica Raquel
    December 10, 2018 / 4:33 am

    First, I’m glad you are okay and no real damage was caused. Secondly, I never thought about using the phrases I hope and I wish were negative until reading this but you are so Right! Being grateful and attracting positive things is what we all should be pushing for! Thank you for sharing this inspiring post!

    Erica Raquel

    • telia
      December 11, 2018 / 10:45 am

      Thank you so much, I am so glad I was able to inspire you.

  9. December 10, 2018 / 4:41 pm

    I completely believe in this. I have been applying the principles since May and everything I’ve wanted to attract I have. It’s truly amazing! I changed my mindset and I’ve changed my life. I’ve learned different manifestation exercises and channeled my energy it’s truly remarkable the journey you go in with the law of attraction. Great post! Love your blog’

    • telia
      December 11, 2018 / 10:44 am

      It’s truly amazing isn’t it?! I have been doing the same things as well and it is a great feeling and I am already seeing a difference. I continue to wish you success in your journey and thank you!

  10. December 10, 2018 / 6:25 pm

    I really like your perspective on this. I often struggle with negative thoughts and I tend to be a pessimist if I don’t watch myself. This was a great reminder for me to focus on the positive and to expect good things rather than bad to happen.

    • telia
      December 11, 2018 / 10:40 am

      Thank you, it has really changed my thinking so far and I am already seeing a difference. I hope it helps you as well.

  11. December 10, 2018 / 6:45 pm

    I’ve only heard about the positive attracting positive so thanks for this post. Now I have another perspective to my thinking.

    • telia
      December 11, 2018 / 10:38 am

      I’m glad you were able to get something out of it!

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